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MLK Day Celebration: Sweet Honey and the Rock

SWEET HONEY IN THE ROCK will join the Reston Community Center for three days of activities in celebration of the 29th Annual Birthday Celebration of Martin Luther King Jr.

To see the full schedule of events visit RCC’s website

http://www.restoncommunitycenter.org/mlk-schedule.shtml

This group first formed as a quartet in 1973 by Dr. Bernice Johnson Reagon at the D.C. Black Repertory Theater Company in Washington. Since that time,  Dr. Reagon retired and 23 vocalists have passed through the group. The original members drew their name from the first song they learned, ‘Sweet Honey in the Rock,’ based on Psalm; “Sweet honey speaks of a land that is so rich, when you break the rocks, honey flows.

Despite the changes in members of the group, the voices have always maintain a spectacular sound and the actions and attitude of the group remained constant throughout. Their voices and a few African hand percussion are the only instruments on stage… and each and every time Sweet Honey in the Rock are a powerful presence that take my breath away.

2014 Reston Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Birthday Celebration

http://restoncommunitycenter.com/mlk-schedule.shtml

SLR Lounge: 5 Stories That Made Us Cry in 2013

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Once I hit puberty, I turned into an emotional mess. Any little thing could make me tear up – whether it was a commercial for cough medicine or seeing a little kid on the street hug his dog. In fact, I’m getting a bit emotional writing this just thinking about getting emotional. And sadly, I am an ugly crier. I see the women in the movies that can eloquently cry, with the single, dramatic tear that slides down a perfectly sculptured cheekbone and well, that is not me. I’m an ugly crier – the kind that has the red, puffy nose, swollen eyes and snot coming out where even an entire box of tissues struggle to contain.You may not be the champion crier like I am, but everyone can use an emotional cleansing now and again, so here are some of the stories that made us cry in 2013. Whether tears of joy or sadness, the following stories moved us emotionally and made us run for the box of Kleenex.Feel free to join me in my ugly cry, but you’ll need to bring your own box of tissues.

1. ‘Story of A Mother’s Love’ Shows Incredible Transformation of Premature Baby

The beautiful story of little Ward Miles, son of photographer, Benjamin Scot, who was born 15 weeks premature. Scot made a video documenting their journey of the first 107 days of Ward’s life. Read the full story

2. Father With Terminal Cancer Walks Unmarried Daughters Down the Aisle

This story is of Fred Evans, who was diagnosed with cancer and only given a few months to live. He knew that he would not live long enough to walk his two unmarried daughters down the aisle, so he planned a special ceremony so that he could fulfill his fatherly duty. Read the Full Story

3. Photographer Honors Sister’s Memories In Recreated Wedding Portraits

To honor the memory of his wife, who tragically died from lung cancer when their daughter was 1, Ben Nunery asked his photographer sister to recreate his wedding photos in the house that Ben and his wife shared. To make this story even more poignant, our writer also created a similar project when his mother died. Read the full story

4. Photographer Documents Wife’s Battle With Cancer

When his wife of four months was diagnosed with breast cancer, photographer Angelo Merendino picked up the camera in an effort show family and friends the daily struggle of their battle. Read the full story

5. The SCAR Project: Heartwrenching Photographs of Breast Cancer Survivors (NSFW)

This amazing project shows us the grim realities of breast cancer that go beyond the pink ribbons and fluffy teddy bears. Read the full story

http://www.slrlounge.com/5-stories-made-us-cry-2013

Hanssie is a Southern California based wedding and portrait photographer. In her free time she homeschools, shakes hands and kisses babies for UNDFIND and plots world domination. She also blogs about her life as a single gal “In The In Between.” Check out her work and her blog at www.hanssietrainor.com

Multi-Generational Housing: New Trend or New Normal?

Franciscus Homes

Franciscus Homes
The Gen-Flex Concept

The idea of sharing a large home with my siblings, their spouses and children has become more and more appealing to me lately. I love my privacy, but isn’t it possible that home builders are taking this into consideration and designing homes that give extended families privacy as well as large shared areas?

I visit my mother most Saturdays at an Assisted Living facility. It’s one of those  places where resident can live independently then transition to skilled care when needed.

My mother selected this facility herself more than 10 years ago. She made the decision about where she would live and how her affairs would be handled while she was of sound mind. For the last 10 years all has gone well. She lived in her independent apartment for many years, then 2 years ago transitioned to the assisted living floor in the same building. The next step is the skilled nursing floor.  The apartment she has now is a nice size, she is surrounded by pictures of her children, grandchildren, quilts, personal items and furniture. When she transitions to the skilled nursing floor, it will be a small shared room and bathroom with another resident. There would be no place for pictures, furniture or even chairs for company to visit in her room

The Gen Flex home can be entered from the outside as well as inside the home. The home is designed to provide several living options easily configurable by the owner.

The Gen Flex home can be entered from the outside as well as inside the home. The home is designed to provide several living options easily configurable by the owner.

I tried to imagine my last days in a room like that one. . . I could not.  My mom has 4 loving children who provide her with lots of well deserved attention. The place where my mother now lives is a very nice facility, however it’s not home . . and when its time for me to count down my last days on earth, if it is at all possible, I would want to be in a home. Unrealistic? Maybe. I don’t know.

I do know more and more people  are looking for options to age in place. If this is something  of interest to you check out the following links:

http://www.aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-04-2013/three-generations-household-american-family.html

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/09/multigenerational-homes-accessible-home-design_n_2926251.html

http://www.trulia.com/blog/kathryn_carlson/2013/06/making_multi_generational_housing_work

http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2013/06/01/4078013/with-multigenerational-housing.html#.Up_knY3lWL8

All in the Family  http://togetheragainbook.com/

Under One Roof, Building for Extended Familieshttp://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/30/us/building-homes-for-modern-multigenerational-families.html?_r=0

http://www.aging2.com/2013/04/multigenerational/

Franciscus Homes are shown above for more info visit

http://www.franciscushomes.com/about-us

Find Local Application Help for ObamaCare

I just got off the phone with a friend who was thought she could only register for ObamaCare via the Internet; I didn’t think that was true so I did some research. Below is a link for anyone who wants face-to-face help locally with their healthcare application/registration; just put in your zip code and you’ll find a list of locations near your home.  The sites listed below are all in Virginia (since that’s where I live) However, you can find places in any state.  I also included a link where you can get facts about the Affordable Care Act, so you can decide for yourself if it’s for you. Your fiends and family may have the best intentions, but sometimes don’t have all of the facts. The site will also translate resources in Chinese, French Creole (Kreyol), Korean, Polski (Polish), Portuguese, Spanish, Vietnamese

http://wp.me/p265V0-  local help with application

Facts about Affordable Care Act http://www.hhs.gov/healthcare/facts/timeline/index.html

KOREAN COMMUNITY SERVICE CENTER OF GREATER WASHINGTON

Address: 7700 Little River Turnpike, Suite 406

Annandale VA 22003 (map it) Phone: (703) 354-6345 (main)

Office Hours:

Monday- Friday 9:00AM-5:00PM

Web:

http://www.kcscgw.org

Email:

yrlee@kcscgw.org

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CORNERSTONES

Address:

11150 Sunset Hills Rd., #210

Reston VA 20190 (map it)

Phone:

(571) 323-9555 (main)

Office Hours:

9 AM – 5 PM, Monday – Friday

Web:

http://www.cornerstonesva.org

Email:

marketplace@cornerstones.org

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AMERICAN HEALTH CARE PROFESSIONALS

Address:

8500 Leesburg Pike #202

Vienna VA 22182 (map it)

Phone:

(703) 388-2813 (main)

Office Hours:

8:30-5P M-F After Hours Emergency Number 703-388-2813

Web:

http://www.ahcpnetwork.com

Email:

pr@ahcpofva.com

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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CORNERSTONES

Address:

11484 Washington Plaza West, #200

Reston VA 20190 (map it)

Phone:

(571) 323-9555 (main)

Office Hours:

9 AM – 5 PM, Monday – Friday

Web:

http://www.cornerstonesva.org

Email:

marketplace@cornerstones.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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CORNERSTONES

Address:

1141 Elden St., #200

Herndon VA 20170 (map it)

Phone:

(571) 323-9555 (main)

Office Hours:

9 AM – 5 PM, Monday – Friday

Web:

http://www.cornerstonesva.org

Email:

marketplace@cornerstones.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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 HEALTHWORKS FOR NORTHERN VIRGINIA

Address:

1141 Elden Street Suite 300

Herndon VA 20170 (map it)

Phone:

(703) 840-4699 (main)

Office Hours:

Monday-Friday, 9 AM To 5 PM

Web:

http://hwnova.org/

Email:

info@hwnova.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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CORNERSTONES

Address:

1086 Elden St.

Herndon VA 20170 (map it)

Phone:

(571) 323-9555 (main)

Office Hours:

9 AM – 9 PM, Monday – Friday 9 AM – 12 PM, Saturday

Web:

http://www.cornerstonesva.org

Email:

marketplace@cornerstones.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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MENTAL HEALTH AMERICA (MHA)

Address:

2000 N. Beauregard Street, 6Th Floor

Alexandria VA 22311 (map it)

Phone:

(703) 684-7722 (main)

(800) 969-6642 (toll free)

(866) 468-9199 (Español)

Office Hours:

9-5 EST

Web:

http://www.mentalhealthamerica.net/

Email:

info@mentalhealthamerica.net

Helps With:

Language Support

Small Business/SHOP

Application Assistance

Additional Languages:

Spanish

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GREATER PRINCE WILLIAM COMMUNITY HEALTH CENTER

Address:

4379 Ridgewood Center Dr Suite #102

Woodbridge VA 22192 (map it)

Phone:

(703) 680-7950 (main)

Office Hours:

Monday: 8AM-7PM Tuesday: 8AM-4:30PM Wednesday: 8AM-7PM Thursday: 8AM-4:30PM Friday: 8AM-4:30PM

Web:

http://www.gpwhealthcenter.org

Email:

ncasiano@gpwhealthcenter.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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K.I.SERVICES,INC

Address:

25 South Quaker Lane. Unit 4

Alexandria VA 22314 (map it)

Phone:

(703) 823-4401 (main)

Office Hours:

8;30Am-4:00PM Monday Through Friday

Web:

http://www.kiservices.org

Email:

info@kiservices.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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FAMILY FIRST HEALTH

Address:

1275 York Rd

Gettysburg PA 17325 (map it)

Phone:

(717) 337-9400 (main)

Office Hours:

M-T: 7:30AM To 8:00PM W: 7:30AM To 7:00PM Th-F: 7:30AM To 6:00PM

Web:

http://www.familyfirsthealth.org/

Email:

jensminger@familyfirsthealth.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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FAMILY FIRST HEALTH

Address:

1230 High St

Hanover PA 17331 (map it)

Phone:

(717) 632-9052 (main)

Office Hours:

M-W: 8:00AM To 7:00PM Th-F: 8:00AM To 5:00PM

Web:

http://www.familyfirsthealth.org/

Email:

jensminger@familyfirsthealth.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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MORGAN COUNTY DHHR (MAXIMUS)

Address:

62 Regal Court

Morgan WV 25411 (map it)

Phone:

(304) 258-1350 (main)

Office Hours:

8:30-5 M-F

Helps With:

Small Business/SHOP

Application Assistance

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SENIOR LIFE SERVICES OF MORGAN COUNTY (SHIP)

Address:

106 Sandmind Road, Suite 1

Morgan WV 25411 (map it)

Phone:

(304) 258-3096 (main)

Helps With:

Small Business/SHOP

Application Assistance

CENTRAL VIRGINIA HEALTH SERVICES, INC.

Address:

11814 King William Road

Aylett VA 23009 (map it)

Phone:

(434) 581-3271 (main)

Office Hours:

9 AM – 5 PM

Web:

http://www.cvhsinc.org

Email:

enrollment@cvhsinc.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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KEYSTONE HEALTH

Address:

830 Fifth Avenue Suite 104

Chambersburg PA 17201 (map it)

Phone:

(717) 709-7969 (main)

Office Hours:

Mon To Fri 8-5 With Flexible Hours For Evenings And Weekends

Web:

http://www.keystoneoutreachenrollment.org

Email:

email@keystonehealth.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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JEFFEERSON AREA BOARD FOR AGING

Address:

674 Hillsdale Dr. Ste. 9

Charlottesville VA 22901 (map it)

Phone:

(434) 817-5222 (main)

Office Hours:

9-5 M-F

Web:

http://www.jabacares.org

Email:

info@jabacares.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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TRI-STATE COMMUNITY HEALTH CENTER

Address:

525 Fulton Drive

Mcconnellsburg PA 17233 (map it)

Phone:

(717) 485-3850 (main)

Office Hours:

Monday Through Thursday 8 A.M. To 7 P.M. Friday 8 A.M. To 5 P.M.

Web:

http://www.tschc.org

Email:

info@tschc.com

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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FAMILY FIRST HEALTH

Address:

116 S. George St

York PA 17403 (map it)

Phone:

(717) 845-8617 (main)

Office Hours:

M-F 7:30AM -7PM

Web:

http://www.familyfirsthealth.org/

Email:

jensminger@familyfirsthealth.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

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FAMILY FIRST HEALTH

Address:

415 E Boundary Ave

York PA 17403 (map it)

Phone:

(717) 843-5174 (main)

Office Hours:

M-F 7:30AM -4PM

Web:

http://www.familyfirsthealth.org/

Email:

jensminger@familyfirsthealth.org

Helps With:

Application Assistance

 

Malala, Teen Activist Shot By Taliban, Made Jon Stewart’s Jaw Drop (VIDEO)

Excerpt from – The Huffington Post  |  By  

Jon Stewart isn’t easily impressed. But on Tuesday, a 16-year-old left this sardonic late-show host speechless.

n-MALALA-JON-STEWART-largeA year after she was shot by the Taliban for speaking out about girls’ education rights, Malala Yousafzai sat down with Stewart to talk about her views on education and terrorism and how she plans to continue her fight to open up classrooms for girls all over the globe.

Click link below to read entire post and see video clip

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/09/malala-jon-stewart_n_4073426.html?ir=Women

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Malala Yousafzai poses for photographers before a meeting with United Nations Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon and youth delegates, Friday, July 12, 2013 at United Nations headquarters. (AP Photo/Mary Altaffer)

Women’s Media Center: Progressive Women’s Voices

English: Rachel Maddow in Seattle.

English: Rachel Maddow in Seattle. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

2013 Dates:

Washington, DC: December 6 – 8, 2013
New York City: December 14 – 16, 2013

Application Deadline October 25, 2013. The 2013 Class will be announced on November 25.

Women’s Media Center seeks women who have something to say and are eager to dive into the media conversations on the important issues of the day.  Are you the next Rachel Maddow? Do you want to become a political contributor who is called upon to serve as a strong progressive voice in the media

Apply Now

About:

Progressive Women’s Voices is the premier media and leadership training program for women in the country. Participants represent a range of expertise and diversity across race, class, geography, sexual preference, ability, and generation. They receive advanced, comprehensive training and tools to position themselves as media spokespeople in their fields, thereby changing the conversation on issues that fill headlines. Graduates join a supportive network of alumnae who support each other in their media goals.

With the WMC’s training and support, over 100 Progressive Women’s Voices experts have been featured in the Washington Post, The New York Times, Elle, New York magazine, USA Today, Forbes, Variety, Mother Jones, the Wall Street Journal, Slate, Salon, the New Republic, the Los Angeles Times; by the Associated Press and Reuters; on Good Morning America, CNN, MSNBC, CBS Nightly News, Fox News, ABC News, CNBC, Bill Moyers, numerous NPR shows; and within hundreds of other top-tier media outlets.

Application Process:

The Women’s Media Center seeks women who have something to say and are eager to dive into the media conversations on the important issues of the day. Are you the next Rachel Maddow? Do you want to become a political contributor who is called upon to serve as a strong progressive voice in the media?  Apply for the WMC’s Progressive Women’s Voices program today! Criteria for selection include:

•Identification as a progressive feminist who is a recognized communicator in your field

•Demonstrated media savvy, political knowledge, ability to converse on many issues

•Willingness and desire to promote yourself, engage in new media experiences, and reach media goals

•One-year commitment to the leadership and training program

Progressive Women’s Voices starts with a highly competitive application process. Women who graduate from the program leave with a sophisticated understanding of the current media climate, what messages work best for different audiences, the most effective interview presentation and techniques, and specific training on how to:

•Position themselves as thought leaders/experts in their fields

•Craft strong media messages and newsworthy pitches

•Prepare for an interview

•Manage friendly and hostile broadcast interviews

•Incorporate video into their work

•Develop and place op-ed articles

Women representing diverse backgrounds, areas of expertise, professions, ethnicities, ages, geographical regions, and levels of experience are encouraged to apply (including those who have previously applied).

The PWV program is extremely competitive. Because of the high volume of quality applications, the WMC cannot accept as many deserving women as we would like. Candidates who have previously applied will be rigorously and impartially considered.

Applications for Progressive Women’s Voices will open later in October 2013, with deadlines for submission to be announced.

Selected participants are responsible for their own travel and lodging. Be assured that ability to pay is not a consideration in the review process. We will be providing a limited number of scholarships so that the program is accessible to women who need financial support. Women representing diverse backgrounds, areas of expertise, professions, ethnicities, abilities, ages, geographical regions and levels of experience are encouraged to apply (including those who have previously applied).

Costs:

Individuals/Small Nonprofit Rate: $295
Corporate Rate:  $1,000
Celebrity/Executive/Patron Rate: $2,500″

I Can’t Hear Myself Think!

I hate the feeling  of fullness in my ears when flying.  For me it’s just annoying, but I’ve heard some people experience tremendous pain! . . . ‘Airplane ear,” is what it’s called and as you probably guessed, it has to do with air pressure on your eardrum caused by the change in altitude when a plane takes off and lands.

On recent travel, after landing with a bad case of ‘airplane ear’ I went to dinner with a friend and found it hard to follow conversation. Even though I could hear my friend speak, It seemed I could not think clearly without hearing well?

I thought it was odd until I spoke to Vivian Muccio,  a board certified, licensed Audiologist in Fairfax County. Her practice ‘Hearing Solutions’ offers free hearing test to anyone who wants one!  (I will post her information at the end of this post)

Hearing aid

Hearing aid (Photo credit: Soitiki)

Vivian Muccio: “I said it before, hearing is more about the brain than the ear, and just this past year there’s a lot more research saying that even if you have a mild to moderate hearing loss it affects your memory, it affects your fatigue level, it affects your accuracy doing simple tasks – if there’s any speech involved because my brain – if you’re talking to me and I’m trying to do something, my brain is overtasked and has to do two things at the same time.”

An estimated 10 million Americans between the ages 45 to 64 have some hearing loss.  A study conducted by Johns Hopkins showed that hearing-impaired people between 75 and 84 were more likely to have cognitive and memory issues than hearing adults the same age.

Vivian Muccio: “For me, that’s a big issue for education because dementia testing is mostly verbal, and most people don’t have hearing tests first, and that really might affect the results the physician looks at”

Northern Virginia Resource Center for Deaf and Hard of Hearing Persons is an organization whose mission is to empower hard of hearing persons and their families through advocacy, education and community involvement.

Bonnie O’Leary lost her hearing later in life and now works for NVRC as an outreach coordinator; she explains some of the misconceptions about hearing loss and aging.

Bonnie O’Leary: “Well, one in particular that we see is that sometimes people who are in that environment with seniors misinterpret some of the symptoms of hearing loss as being symptoms of dementia.  I was in a retirement community some years back doing a training only to find out that they had admitted a 90 yr. old and put her on the dementia floor and it was only a couple of months that she was there that they discovered she was stone-cold-deaf!  She didn’t have dementia at all…but some of the responses are very, very similar.  That blank stare, looking confused, looking like you have no idea where you are or what you’re doing.  That having been said – there are new studies that have come out in the last couple of years that are showing that there is a greater risk of onset dementia in people who don’t treat their hearing loss because we hear in our brain, we don’t hear in our ears, it’s in our brain – and when our brain isn’t getting that stimulation that is not a good thing long-term for older people. So it’s good to identify the hearing loss and see what you can do to have it treated.”

Every person’s hearing loss and lifestyle is different. While there is no hearing aid that can be a one size fits all, the right hearing aid, in addition to assistive devices and training in how to use it can help people with hearing loss not be so isolated.

Vivian Muccio explains the process of a hearing test by a licensed Audiologist:

“Well first we’re gonna do intake on you to kind of see  how you think you’re hearing, what’s your family history, do you have any medical problems that need to be addressed….we’re also gonna ask you ‘what’s your lifestyle?’ Cause everybody has a different lifestyle – are you in a noisy environment, are you in quiet environments, are you traveling, you know – are you active physically, do you go jogging everyday? We’re going to ask you those kinds of questions about your lifestyle so we can determine what you are as an individual – what your hearing aid needs might be.”

“After the interview where I’m gonna check your ears for wax and the health of your ear.

“I’m looking at the eardrum to see if it’s nice and clear – it should look transparent. I’m looking to see if there’s any wax blocking the ear – I’m looking to see if maybe there’s some fungus in the ear medically that needs to be treated, and then would refer you to a doctor for treatment like that. Is the eardrum intact? Is there a hole in the eardrum? Is there any malformation of the eardrum itself?”

Then we’re going to take you back and actually find your thresholds are, or your actual hearing acuity by actually testing you in the booth – we’re gonna give you some little beeps and whistles to listen to in both ears, and we’re also gonna do some speech testing to see the clarity of your ear – not just the loudness that you need or how your hearing is.”

“It’s going to tell me the range – and that might determine somewhat the hearing aid, but now hearing aids have gotten more powerful and smaller, so you can get a really tiny hearing aid and still get a lot of power out of that. So you can keep changing as the technology changes. Everything is about the computer chip now, so we’re actually programming your data from the hearing test into the hearing aid computer chip and making as close of a match as we can. Hearing aids come in different styles – they can go over the ear, they can go in the ear and be very tiny, practically invisible nowadays – and some hearing aids can actually be fit that we put it in every three months, and every three months we take it out and put a new one in. You can swim with it, shower with it, sleep with it, and that’s something new that’s just come around probably w/in the past 5 years.”

Because the cost of hearing aids can be expensive, many people avoid scheduled hearing test or purchase less expensive options, such as amplifiers that can be purchased on the Internet.

Vivian Muccio:  In terms of the hearing aids itself, most insurances do not cover it ! In 2000 BlueCross Blue Shield Federal Government started offering  $2000 per hearing aid every three years – now it’s up to $2500. Since then, other insurances – I think to be more competitive – have offered some coverage so you always want to call your insurance company and see if you do have coverage because you may not have had coverage in 2009, and you checked and you were gonna get hearing aids…and now it’s 2013 and you may have some coverage.

Vivian: “I say to most of my clients that every 3 to 5 years…it’s not that it’s not gonna work in 3-5 years, but the technology might have changed so much that you might wanna see what’s going to work for you. I used to make a joke that if they made something that you could lick and stick and put behind your ear to make you hear like you were 18, you might wanna get that. Doesn’t mean you have to – the hearing aids now can be reprogrammed, but the technology is doing more for noise than it ever has before. So if that’s an issue for you, if you’re very active – going to noisy places, noisy restaurants, you might wanna look into the technology cause we want to maximize your usable hearing because again – it’s all about your brain. The better the brain gets the signal, it’s clearer – the brain has to do less work.”

There are many different types of Hearing Health Professionals that do hearing test, experts suggest before you purchase hearing aids or assistive devices, do your homework to be sure they are on the up and up.

Bonnie O’Leary: “A very good friend of mine did an elder hostile study years ago.  He went across the country with a colleague and they interviewed many seniors who were late-deafened, and the grief is absolutely astounding.  It’s like losing a part of yourself, when you’re been hearing for most of your life you can juggle many, many balls at once…you can go here, there and catch the side at the end of the table, and catch the gossip at the water cooler, and that’s gone – you’re disconnected. You can be at a dining room table with all of your loved ones, your family, your friends, all the people in the world that you care about the most and it’s like watching a foreign language film w/o subtitles…so you’re there but you’re not really there. You’re separate – you begin to feel kind of marginalized, like you’re not the same person (even though you are) but you can’t do the same things, you can’t engage in the same way…the logical result of that is you stop going.  You turn down invitations because you don’t want to put yourself through that, and you become lonely – you become very isolated and it’s a very bad thing for mental health overall.  Especially when you’re older! You’ve got all these other issues on your plate – now you don’t hear so you just sit at home by yourself.”

Excerpt from NVRC Educational Material

  1. Get the best possible advice. Don’t let advertising claims and the opinions of others influence your decisions
  2. In Virginia you are legally entitled to a 30 day trial period for any hearing aid. Digital and programmable hearing aids sometimes come with a 60 day trial period.
  3. For some behind the ear models, you will pay about $50 for an ear mold made to fit snugly in your ear. There may be a special modification charge for in the ear or in the canal hearing aids.
  4. Ask about getting a Telecoil. Often called a T-Switch or telephone switch, the electromagnetic coil makes it much easier to hear on the telephone and use assistive listening devices systems now installed in many theatres, movie houses, places of worship, libraries and public meeting rooms.
  5. Batteries last usually 5-14 days, depending on size.

A hearing aid will make sounds louder and in many instances it will make them clearer. It has taken years to reach your current level of hearing loss, so don’t expect things to sound the way they use to. However, you should not experience any actual pain or physical discomfort. Feeback is often the result of improper fitting, loose ear molds, cracked tubing or other problems that can be fixed. Do not accept feedback.

The Northern Virginia Resource Center maintains a database of more than 2,000 resources and referral listings for anyone who is deaf or has hearing loss – 703-352-9055, (TTY) 9056 – 3951 Pender Drive, suite 130.

Vivian Muccio – Hearing Solutions of Fairfax PC  3930 Pender Dr #140  Fairfax, VA 22030 – (571) 432-0640

Sholdit: Hands Free Clutch!

Apparently, I have been out of the loop! I did not know this accessory existed!

Sholdit Clutch Bag was created to make things easier for women on the go. It’s a zippered clutch that can be unrolled into a shoulder wrap and worn across your body or worn as an infinity scarf draped around your neck or as a head cover. Very cool, huh? This functional, hands-free, three-in-one accessory includes a hidden zippered pocket where you can put a cell phone, small wallet, lipstick and a key. There, now you’re set to go. . . Hands free to go to the movies, out to dinner, gallery, dog park or where ever!

I think this is worth ordering.  Check it out and see what you think www.sholdit.com.

Free Flow Forum

FreeFlowCurrent

Free Flow Forum is an open mic dedicated to artistic expression and music. Boasting a live band that enhances the entertainment provided by  various Poets, Singers, Musicians, Comedians and Dancers that grace the stage. Located in the jazzy urban U Street district of Washington DC, Red Lounge attracts the professional business art crowds of the city. Flowrhythmic  brings a spotlight to the art community to showcase its best, brightest and most valued performing artists.

Every 2nd and 4th Wednesday @ Red Lounge 2013 14th St NW (U Street) Washington D.C.  8-11pm – $5

 Twitter Handles: @FlowOpen – Producer/Co-Host: @J_D_A_B –  Band: @flawedlogikband – Host: @PresidentLDavis – Free Flow Forum Open Mic – Hosted by President L Davis.

 

 

 

Reminder: I’m Giving Away Free Tickets to Fiji!

Reminder: I’m Giving Away Free Tickets to Fiji!.